Lovei got this email from a friend this morning. words so powerfully written, but true:
To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.
~gracie left a note at 12:10 pm
Monday, April 03, 2006
Your Decision? or Mine?If you were given a chance to settle down in 1 place in this world, where would it be? is it going to be Africa? Gobi desert? Ethopia? Pakistan? Greenland? China? Australia? or Singapore? a tough question, but something to ponder about.
i am at life's crossroads. it is always at such junction in life when ppl have to make hard decisions. decisions that will steer their life in a certain direction. decisions that will make major changes to one's life. such personal decisions should be made on one's accord.
one shouldn't feel compelled or controlled by certain authority to make such decisions. and one shouldn't make a decision for another person's sake. should he marry her because her mum requested him to? should an unwed pregnant mum abort her child because premarital sex is a social taboo? should one migrate to another part of the world for another person's sake? no, it's a decision that one has to decide for oneself. ppl around may make comments, contribute opinions or give advise. be it a good or bad choice made at the end of the day, it's a personal choice afterall. no one can despise, no one can judge.
once a decision is made, don't look back. sometimes we may look back at our lives and ask: what could have happened if we chose another way? would we be leading a happier life? nobody knows. it's not for us to question of things unknown. cos the more we question, the more we may regret the decisions we made in the past. why should we look back? why not look ahead?
in the midst of such awful decision making dilemmas, i'm hopeful that there's a bright future ahead. i'm looking forward to better life.
~gracie left a note at 10:46 am