found out a lot of secrets on vday this year. things that i've never known before, heard some heartbreaking news and received unexpected surprises and sms-es. in all good sense, it's been memorable. truly appreciate every bit of effort from 'the one', u know who u r ;)

realised that relationships are so fragile and temporal. you may be together for 6 or 8 years, but at the end of it all, both decided that the relationship wasn't meant for both of you. how tragic! imagine those years of togetherness, emotional intimacy and understanding...all gone down the drain? emotional healing is a long and arduous process. wounds are never really healed. scars remain.

romancers would say, love isn't love until you give it all away. really? what if you give it all away and get hurt in return? perhaps love's a two way street. it's mutual and should remain mutual. how to keep love alive for two? i believe it's: spending time together. acceptance. understanding. mutuality. commitment. easier said than done? with time, secrets will be revealed. so let's wait and let time tell.