When we all get together - memoirs of the shang family
an imd design lecturer passed me a dating mag this am. so funny~ she smiled cheekily and said, 'this mag is meant for girls like u...not me!' browsed through the mag and this page caught my eye: when it comes to dating, should the ladies make the first move? afterall, we are in the new millennium! - Duet

should we girls turn pursuer or should we remain a prey? i feel that there's always a fear of rejection and being hurt somewhere lingering in the corners of the heart. it takes a lot of courage, a lot of boldness and a lot of strength in personality to make that big step. life's really too short to beat around the bush. one of the guys said, 'girls, if you get the opportunity, go for it! anyway, most men will be so flattered, you could say anything and get away with it.' haha, i grinned so much after reading this. i think i should start bloggin about something else, or else my readers here will complain!! sean, sorry man! :) been too involved in relationships recently. complicating. found this my only avenue to release those emos and thoughts!

on a separate note, CNY has been a great reunion for me and my cousins and good friends. im glad i'm part of this big closely-knitted shang family network. it was a heartwarming and teary experience to sit down with the 24 cousins to play games together. there was so much laughter in the house. it's an annual affair and i'm truly glad! :)

~gracie left a note at 10:16 am