Friday, April 20, 2007
Are you a people pleaser?
Life is all about give and take and you're doing all the giving, while the people around you take advantage! You seem to have fallen off your own list of priorities. A dangerous situation when you consider that we only have one life to live. You have obviously been blessed with a strong desire to please, something that will earn you a great many friends. However, you appear to be lacking a few essential tools for dealing with conflict. No stranger to sacrifice or compromise, you're prepared to bend over backwards in order to avoid a dispute. Unfortunately there will always be times when you will either have to compromise yourself, or the people close to you. You obviously care about your friends, and we're all for this, but real friends will understand that sometimes you have to put yourself first. It's a sad fact that someone who is always there to lend support no matter what, is often overlooked and neglected. By placing more respect in yourself, you will gain more respect from others and probably find that they're more likely to help you out when you need it. After all, if you're not going to look out for number one, who will?
~gracie left a note at 10:26 am