how do you know if your partner is 'the one'?
this was one of the interesting questions that came out of facebook. im sure for those who are in a relationship, this would be one of the things you consider very carefully before you jump into the big thing called marriage. it being a lifelong commitment, everyone wants to make the right decision for themselves. and of course, would love if the story ends with: 'and they lived happily ever after.'

sometimes it gets really tiring, when you constantly wonder if you're really the one for him, or perhaps if he is the one for you. you'll start to consider the few things: how much do you know him? how comfortable are you with him? how certain are you that his heart won't change in the years to come? and the answers sometimes get tangled up together and you find yourself pretty confused at the end of it all.

i believe that there isn't really the right one, or the one - because if you continuously seek for the one, or wait for the perfect one to come, there would never be one. for the fickle minded, the grass is always greener over the other side. is there always a better one out there? really? but not until you give up searching, and decide with your heart, mind and soul to settle down do you truly feel contented.

have you found the one?

cherish.