can money buy you simple joys & happiness?
no! no! no! *shouts.

why must it always be the only concern in job search?

only concern?? the single MOST important reason for employment? why?????

isn't it about accumulating valuable experiences and enjoying every moment of what you do? non materialistic gains weigh more on the measurement scale. it isn't slogging all your life for just the 5 materialistic Cs. it really isn't.

what drives you madly? what stirs your heart? what's your passion? your values, your dreams and your motivations? what's the one thing that you'd work your heart and soul for? if you were to search your heart deeply, im sure there is more to the job commitment and earning the daily living.

and saving up for marriage & weddings... are you so going to break up with him because he isn't earning enough to afford a big diamond ring, 5-star hotel wedding banquet, super luxurious honeymoon and pretty photoshoot? does love equate Big M? should he really give up all he has, change to a 5-figure paying job just to support your materialistic dreams? this isn't love; it's manipulation.

call me an idealist. i seriously don't believe in marrying the Big M.